Tap the ham slices a little flatter. Season milk with nutmeg. Soak the slices of ham for about 4 hours
Peel, wash and coarsely chop the potatoes. Cook in salted water for about 20 minutes. Wash parsley and chop finely, except for a little bit
Whisk eggs and pepper. Drain ham well. First turn in the flour, then in the egg. Heat oil in a coated pan. Fry the ham on each side for 3-5 minutes until golden brown
Drain the potatoes. Add 2 tablespoons butter and buttermilk. Mash everything to a fine puree. Season to taste with salt and a little nutmeg. Serve with the ham, sprinkle with parsley and garnish. Serve with peas and carrots with melted butter