Roughly chop the chocolate coating. Boil up milk, except for 5 tablespoons, and vanilla sugar. Mix the starch with the rest of the milk. Stir into the boiling milk and simmer for 1-2 minutes. Stir in chocolate coating and coconut flakes until the chocolate coating is dissolved.
Season the pudding with sugar. Divide into 4-6 dessert glasses and let them cool down.
Peel the pineapple, cut into slices and remove the stalk. Wash the lemon balm and cut the leaves finely. Cut half the pineapple into pieces and put them on 4-6 wooden skewers. Finely dice the rest of the pineapple.
Mix with 1 tablespoon brown sugar and lemon balm. Leave to stand briefly.
Heat butter in a coated pan. Fry the pineapple skewers for 1-2 minutes on each side, sprinkle with 1 tablespoon of brown sugar. Remove the skewers.
Peel off the chocolate with a peeler. Decorate the pudding with it. Serve with skewers and pineapple salad.